[FuzzieAlum]

My sister J would get the worst rush crushes every year. I mean, they were great girls we all liked, but she had a bad case of it! And the sad thing is that none of them ended up in our chapter, and she would be so devastated - we'd have to really work to convince her to come to bid day and pledging.

So, you might want Ms. Rushee for your chapter, but don't let it get too out of control!

I seemed to end up with the anti-rush crush. There were girls I liked, but more often there were girls I wouldn't have ever, ever wanted to be my sister. The girls who came in and said, "I'm going to join Mu Mu Mu. This is boring." ... until my senior year when I had a major rush crush on this girl down the hall. Everyone liked her. Then the Greek life office screwed up her invites. They told her she was only invited to one. She was devastated. I was paired up with her for pref ... and she didn't come. Yup, she was on our list, it was our invite they screwed up, and she was really invited to two parties. She ended up not filling out her bid card and pledged the other sorority next fall. I don't think she ever really believed us that we had truly invited her and the office screwed up.