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pledge - I have to agree with what some other posters have said. Negativity breeds negativity. Open up your heart and let the sun shine in.
We weren't considered the "hot" sorority either, but it was a hell of a lot more fun to hear a guy say after a mixer "wow, I never knew how awesome you guys were!" and make them realize that hanging out with the #1's isn't everything.
For a while we did have probs getting some fraternities to mix with us because previous sisters had restricted themselves to one or two fraternities. I would get your social chair to arrange a double mixer with another one of the sororities and 2 fraternities. They are a blast, because twice the people are there, it helps promote Greek unity, and gets your foot in a door you might not have. It worked really well for us.
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