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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Pledge -- you sound SO BITTER. I probably wouldn't hang out with you because of that alone -- you could look like the hottest thing on two legs, but if you're not fun to be with, you're not fun to be with.
Sisterhood isn't about getting drunk with frats and who pays you the most attention.
You need to change your focus. You sound like so many girls who complain, "Nooooo guys liiiiiiiike meeeee......" and never step back for half a minute to consider -- why should they? Do I try and have fun no matter where I am? Am I encouraging, fun to be with, energetic, optimistic? Or do I spend most of my time complaining?
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Speaking of bitter....
Normally serious questions on here aren't met with derision like this; I think someone is just having a bad day. No, sisterhood isn't about getting drunk at fraternities or who pays you the most attention. But mixers and attention are what I like to call fringe benefits from being greek
I've never heard a sister say, "Darn, I wish those fraternities would quit inviting us to mix. Don't they realize that all we want to do is sit around the house ordering pizza and contemplaing sisterhood?"
That said, there is a lot of great advice floating around this thread and I hope you take it!
I realize that entering Greekworld can be overwhelming at first and I'm sure it's hard seeing the other "glamazon" sororities getting the mixers, but I'm sure that if your sorority makes the effort to get your name out there you'll have a full social calendar within a year.
Good luck!