pledge, my sorority went through the same thing of not being known as the "hot" girls. And much like CarolinaDG's sorority, we became known as the "fun" group of girls. We always came up with great mixer ideas, and presented it to them in a cool way. If the guys didn't bite, well, their loss! The groups that did have parties with us always had a good time and word eventually got around!
And besides, my boyfriend told me that his fraternity didn't like to mix with the hot girl sorority. He said it was like a junior high mixer (boys on one side, girls on the other) because the girls didn't want to make their boyfriends' mad!! And they left early to be with their boyfriends too. So, sometimes, the "hot sorority" parties aren't always the most fun.
