Ok, I'm gonna tell you a few stories about my sorority...
Here, we're not exactly known as "the best"... BUT, here are a few things that I've heard fraternities say... I've heard Pi Kapps say that we were the most fun sorority to do homecoming with, DU's this year have said the same thing. A Sigma Nu said that we were great girls, we just needed to get our name out more. Sig Eps asked us to mix with them (and they're one of the best fraternities on campus). We're known as the "fun" girls. Out of the fraternities that I've listed, Sigma Nu is the only one that one of our girls isn't dating one of the guys in.
My point is, being known as the "fun" girls really is a very good thing. We aren't required to mix with every fraternity. A lot of the fraternities on this campus only mix with four sororities. Sometimes 6. There are 9 on campus. And it really is horrible sometimes, because I know that if they mixed with us, they'd fall in love with us. All the other fraternities that do go to parties with us have.
I think your greek life is wonderful for making y'all mix. You've been given a great opportunity there. So just take advantage of it. If they think of you as fun and laid back, then have that reputation. Be fun and laid back. It's DEFINITELY not a bad reputation to have.
Oh, and look around... even the sororities that are stereotypical blonde and perfect aren't all that way. And even the sororites that aren't the stereotypical blonde and perfect may have a girl or two that are blonde and perfect.
