Tisha, the best way for you to find out what you want to know is to ask your associate himself. He may not be at liberty to discuss in depth all that it means, but at least HE is speaking from knowledge and not ignorance.
Queen, I think that your "personal opinion" was rather stereotypical. Maybe you don't have the PRIVELEGE of knowing too many members of the org. but to say that all Q-dogs are ONLY concerned with stepping, barking, and such really shows your ignorance of the organization...and by the way, there are members of EVERY org. who may only be concerned with such trivial things as you mentioned, but those people may not be representative of the entire brotherhood...I suggest you meet and greet!!!
Just my "personal opinion!"
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'Cause I'm a woman,
Phenomenally
Phenomenal Woman
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Maya Angelou