Well all I have to say is if the sisters that didn't like your friends you brought were technically new members they do not have a voice in extending bids... (we are COBing and the girls who just got bids through formal can't vote on the newest girls) so I'm assumign that's protocol... I also agree with a pass the gavel session or something of the sort. Thirdly about joining the wrong sorority... you've been initiated.... you can never join another NPC organization... so if you want to have the greek experience, you have to stick it out with Phi Sig. You can disaffiliate, but then you would be giving up your privliges as an alumnae... I think if you have this much heart into Phi Sig that you are MAL and are trying to bring in girls to your chapter and all of that are probably just the type of girl that can bring your chapter around
