Yesterday, I posted my WHOLE story on the "Ole Miss" Thread, but I just want to mention one important aspect to you, Melissa. I was offered a bid after an informal event my sophomore year (after an unsuccessful Rush as a freshman). I declined
because by then I was just too involved with too many activities to be able to give as much of my time as the sorority deserved. They offered me a bid AGAIN my junior year (informal too), and again, I declined. Even though I still sometimes regret the decision I made, I have completely wonderful, lifelong friends from my time in college. In fact, I'm heading back to Homecoming next week, and I CAN'T WAIT!!! Make your college years all that you want them to be...with or without a sorority. And remember, Pi Beta Phi still remembered/wanted me even when I was a JUNIOR! You aren't out of the running yet.
Erica