Carnation:
When I was in high school I swore up and down I was never going to go Greek, ever. In fact, I still felt negatively about sororities up until the day before rush, when I turned in an application on a whim just to see what the big deal was. I ended up loving recruitment- I got to go back to all the houses I liked, which was a huge self-esteem boost.
Anyway today I am a proud DZ! I hold two minor chair positions and participate in tons of DZ-related stuff. So give your girl a chance! The more you push, the more rebellious she will feel and she may not rush ever! (I know my mother was very against sororities and I believe my rebellious streak was what spurred me to rush in the first place!)
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