I feel we need to look at the persons heart. I do not want to be with any guy that will take advantaged of me if I allow it. That shows a lack of character to me. Sure everyone has used someone at some point probably but if a man is not mature enough to want something real then I don't want to be bothered with him. I do not need money from any man. I stand on my own two feel. I can buy myself anything I want. I let that be known to men. Now nice dinners etc. are nice but I do not want to HAVE to rely on some man to pay my bills in order to survive. I have never had a thing for bad boys. I have always wanted a good conservative guy but sometimes what you think you have is not what you actually have.
I have friends who love bad boys- mo power to them. But when you KNOW what you are dealing with from the get go- you only have yourself to blame when he does his thing. No man is perfect but there are signs sometimes in the very beginning to let you know what you may be getting your self into.
BAD BOYS BE GONE! Thugs are definately a no! no!
I won't even hold a convo with one-
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