[WhiteDaisy128]

Thanks guys...he would never join a fraternity or anything, so asking him how he would feel if I didn't want him to doesn't really matter. He runs track and he has his track team, they might as well be a fraternity and that is how I explained it to him...what if I told him he couldn't run or every hang out with those guys? It was never a question of whether or not I would join. I have joined, I just was looking for ways to make it easier on him. We have a very strong relationship and I don't want this to cause any problems. I think once he meets my new sisters that he will change his mind, as they are not like the stereotypical "sorority girl" at all. Since DG is just a colony, a lot of fraternities have shown a great interest at doing mixers and other socials with us. I think that is what he does fear like many of you said. But honestly, that is NOT why I joined Delta Gamma. I joined for the sisterhood, scholarship, and philanthropy. I have told him this. I know that most social events are optional, and unless I can bring him, I probably will go to very few of them (as far as fraternity mixers and such), I've heard that mostly freshmen and sophomores go anway, as us Juniors and Seniors have grown out of the party thing...so I don't think it'll be a big deal. He is slowly starting to accept the idea...not like it, but at least give it a chance. He knows it'll make me happy, and that means the world to him. I guess I just have to stick this battle out. Thanks for all of the advice.