[HotDamnImAPhiMu]

I think it's great that he can't go to any events you're at. He shouldn't be able to. Hi, welcome to college. Enjoy the consequences of your actions.

I'm sorry you had to deal with something like that. I was hugely impressed when at a party last night, one of the Kappa Sigma pledges launched into a story about a girl with "fu**ing HUGE tits..." and the pledge educator, who was sitting next to me, stopped him. Twice. When the kid messed up the THIRD time (each sucessive attempt at telling the story was marginally better) the pledge educator said, "We don't talk like that around ladies. Especially not sorority ladies. And certainly not around the girlfriend of an older brother. Unless of course you wanted to get your a** kicked."