you're right, the groups that gave you bids before are probably going to wonder what's up. have you thought of what you'd say if anyone asked? you rejected them before (in a sense) and now you're asking for another chance. some groups might be willing, others wouldn't even bother with you.
what exactly WAS your previous situation? what were your reasons for not wanting to pledge then, and what are your reasons for thinking you want to do it now?
getting recs from alumnae can only help you. it will make the girls give you a second look. they will try a bit harder to get to know you. you probably don't NEED a rec in order to get a bid (depending on your school), but if you can get one, it will only help.
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