[MS_Alpha_PhiPsi]

I must agree with what the ladies above have said to you about your situation. Only thing I don't agree with is the drugging of drinks and stuff. I can't speak for the entire greek system, but I know for a fact that we as well as others wouldn't even think about doing that to someone else. I can't post an opinion on what I have seen or done, however, I can give you advice based upon what I know. Joining a fraternity is a lifelong commitment and gives you so much to work with and enjoy. I know as greeks that we are all looked down upon b/c of the rumors and bad names that are givin' to us. I know here at Ole Miss we are about 60% greek now and the only reason the numbers are so high is b/c people are finally starting to see the good aspects of Greek life.

As for you, you got to do it for yourself. Keep in mind your relationship but try to explain to him what it means to you as an individual. From what I hear around here, it is a great accomplishment to get into a sorority. I can also see where he would think about you being involved with a bunch of fraternity guys. That I can't help you with. You know, it's all about you and what you want, but since you are concerned about it, you obviously have a solid relationship. If that is so, he shouldn't worry about it so much and support you on whatever your decision may be.
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J. Strawn
Phi Kappa Psi
University of Mississippi (Ole Miss)