It's your life, not his. Do what you want.
BUT, I am familiar with your story. Why did you join? I hope it was for yourself. I know you also joined because your mom is sick, and you want this bond with her, right? None of this sounds like any reason to let a boyfriend interfere with a very important decision. Did you tell him what you told us? He should be in the know with what this means to you, and this wasn't just sprung on him like a surprise. Why are you all of a sudden bringing him into the mix when you are "so happy and are going to do it regardless"?
You can find other boyfriends, don't give up this decision.
The right boyfriend wouldn't make you feel like you have to choose.
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