[SapphireSphinx9]

There are a lot of sororities out there that would love for you to start a chapter for them! Or you don't necessarily have to join a sorority, but you can make your own local. Find other women that have the same values as you, and go from there.

I'm glad that you decided to leave though. I feel that if you're uncomfortable during pledging, then you're gonna be uncomfortable in the group for the rest of your life. That's probably one of the best decissions you're gonna make. (Believe me... I went through the same thing with another group, then I became a founder of Phi Sigma Sigma--Another best decission I made!)

Good luck with everything. And if you have any questions, please feel free to PM me, or anyone else on this thread!

Much love~Beth