You've read wishinhopin's thread, right? If not, start there.
Next, go to our webpage (cleverly located at
www.alphaxidelta.org) and click on support - fraternity staff. The extension coordinator's contact info is on there, and she can help ya out.
And good luck! I've been reading your story on trying to find a Greek home, and I think we're all rooting for you, whether you decide on AXD or not.