DZsaiGirl: I
do know what you're talking about...that's why I suggest PNMs wait until financial obligations are presented on the second day (or whenever). This way, they don't come off as the girl who is freaked out about money, but rather as a PNM who is covering her butt and wants to make sure her questions are answered so she doesn't get hit with an financial suprises along the way.
Hope that clears it up a bit!