I have a concern, and I don't want to rock the boat here, but it's about the financial aspect of rush conversation.
At my school, most people pay their own dues, as in, their parents do not pay! My parents do support me, which I am deeply thankful for.
My concern is this: It is the responsible thing to do when a potential member inquires about finances. However, if she is overly concerned with payment plans and how much she can work, etc. and seems to be worried about it, it seems that it might be detrimental to her. For instance if it came down to two girls, the one who was scared about her finances would get cut before one whose parents are going to foot the bill. Of course there are things such as dues scholarships, new member fundraisers to help with dues, etc., but still.
Does anyone know what I am talking about here?
Please realize that I am not trying to offend anyone with this concern. I know that finances are an extremely touchy subject.
