Melissa--
You've still got a bunch of great sororities to choose from, and like someone else said, things happen for a reason. You seem to have a GREAT outlook on this, and I'm sure you're a great girl, no matter what happens through recruitment!! Best of luck to you
I'll give Phi Sig a shameless plug, since they're on my campus too, and I have a lot of friends in Phi Sig!
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