Everyone else has been giving you great words of advice and support, and I just want to back them up. When I went through rush, I got cut by my "favorite" after the first night (also ADPi, coincidentally). However, I stuck it out through rush because there were other groups I was interested in. By Pref Night, I was so completely in love with Phi Mu that I had no idea what ever made me like ADPi in the first place! (although I'm sure they are lovely girls
)The recruitment process is a week of up-and-down emotions, and I'm certain that you'll end up in the perfect place for you.