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Originally posted by atsgirl
I'm just really torn - on one hand, I don't want to hurt any of the girls' feelings, and I know if I can stick it out, I could do a lot to change things from inside and make us a better organization.
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My recommendation (based on experience) is that if you are NOT HAPPY don't continue. I initiated into a local because I didn't want to quit, I wanted to prove to myself that I could do it (and we were hazed!). Unfortunately, I still wonder 'what if. . . ' What if I had de-pledged, what if I had realized that the bid I recieved from the other sorority I liked was for the entire year not just the semester I received it even though first semester freshmen are not allowed to join a social org. . . . I was also a member of the first pledge class and one of the main reasons was so I could help to form the sorority among other things.
I would recommend that you seriously reevaluate why you joined, why you want to leave, etc. If you are not happy, if you are not comfortable, don't stay.
Sarah