[KappaKittyCat]

I get nervous when any couple is fused at the pelvis, Greek or not.

And if I'm dating a Greek, I like to get to know the whole house. That way I feel comfortable just going over there and don't feel as if I have to be with my SO to justify my presence.

I've seen it work out positively in some cases. For example, a freshman girl is dating an upperclass fraternity guy and she's glued to him. He realizes that she needs to develop some life of her own, so he encourages her to go Greek. She finds an entire world that he's not a part of, and she's got her safety net all set for when he cheats on her for four months and then dumps her... oh, wait, sorry. Got a little carried away there.

Bottom line: Maintain personalities when dating! No merging!