[CarolinaDG]

What about the reverse? What if a girl completely withdraws from the sorority because of her fraternity boyfriend. My roommate does nothing without her boyfriend. She pledged because he was in a fraternity. He's busy with homecoming? Well, she'll do homecoming, too. He has a job with the hockey team? She'll try out for the hockey team's dance team. It's as if his life dictates her. They've been together for four years, so I know she's happy and everything, but she's also one of my sisters, so I don't want to see her withdraw from the sorority. Granted, I'm tempted sometimes to just drop things for my boyfriend, but she takes things to an extreme. Should I say something to her about it, or am I crazy for thinking she's wrong to do this.