[ilovemyglo]

Okay, so I searched through (YEAH SEARCH FEATURE!) because I remembered I had written a thread about boys already... so here is the new deal....
I am dating this guy since late July early August. We were friends when we met, but I mean.. oh GOD he is really awesome (one of those guys your mom refers to as a great catch!). So anyway, here is the deal with him. This is an excerpt from an email to AlphaGamDiva:
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I am still dating the south african, and actually it is going really really well. It is funny though cause Sunday he and I were talking and he said that he didn't want to see me anymore, and I was like, uhm- okay, why? And he said something stupid and I said well if that is how you feel and he goes into how no that isn't how he feels, he feels really weird and he doesn't understand what is going on. So of course I am thinking you freak! So I didn't talk to him all Sunday and I was really upset, [I don't think I realized how into this guy I was until he said that!] but luckily Luckett [One of my best friends of like 4 years!] was in town and he was having problems with his girl so we hung out and talked about our dating dilemmas (his girlfriend loves her ex, my guy is really commitment phobic!) so we had a beer and played pool up the street from my house. YEAH!
So Monday I call Konrad (check this- his full name is Konrad [edited to protect the innocent]) and he and I talked for two hours. He told me that he goes into these phases where he questions everything in his life, which I totally understand, cause who doesn't, you know? So then we get to talking about why me and Chris broke up [the guy that I was lavaliered to and in love with for three years/ we broke up in June] and how did I feel or whatever and he says it is really sad, but he has never been in love and he turns 25 this week and whatnot. Then he starts talking about why he is freaking about us or whatever and it turns out it is because he really likes me and is content for the first time in his life. He says that I don't piss him off and he isn't sick of me yet (it has been three months and the longest he has ever dated someone until me is two months and that was an entire they met-they dated-they broke up period and she was called a girlfriend!) so anyway, it scares him cause he said that he thinks that this could serious and since he has never been serious that is weird for him and he said that he has changed. It turns out when he goes out now he no longer tries to meet girls, which he said was always his favorite thing to do, kind of the thrill of the chase thing. But now, he is satisfied so he is obnoxious unless his friend is digging on a chick and then he tries to help them out but he no longer tries to pick up girls.
He also started telling me about when I tell him where I am going out for an evening he ends up there too (sometimes on purpose, sometimes accidentally) and then he watches me all night wondering if I hit on guys. But he says I never do- they hit on me, then I am nice and politely tell them I am not interested. He said that intrigues him.
So in the end- he really likes me, he is really scared and so I told him that he could chill out. He is going to Atlanta this weekend to see his mom for his birthday (Saturday) and hers (Sunday) and he is coming back Monday and I am going to see him then. I figure I can give him a week to quit freaking out. He is also wondering did he pick the right city, cause Louisville isn't nearly as big as Johannesburg (hmm, 7 million to 1 million a little difference there!) and I know he misses his parents (only child) and his friends (total other continent) and he feels like I am all the security he has.

So, that is my dating drama... I know you understand cause you have drama when you date too! The thing is, I didn't mean to meet someone I actually like and (GULP) care about! But he is really an awesome guy. Okay, he is the smartest guy I have ever met (the first in awhile that I know is at least if not more smarter than me, and yeah he is smarter than me!) he is funny and makes me laugh the entire time I am with him!, he is really cute (my mom has the hots for him for Christ's sake!) I mean he is 6'1", muscular, but not like freaky, just right, blue eyes that are gorgeous and blonde hair. Plus, he has an incredible accent (I couldn't understand him at all for two weeks!)> He loves his mom and tells her everything plus he can speak two other languages! He is a doctor (DUH!) and besides all that, he likes to do a lot of different things, I am always learning new things about him! I like that because he intrigues me.



So anyway, here is my dilemma that I need help from you guys on... I also met another guy that is a Sigma chi alum from Western who is really nice. He is actually one of the sweetest guys I have met in a long while. The thing is Konrad and I agreed that we are not committed to one another, and he said I can do what I want with whomever so long as he doesn't know about it. I told him I wanted to know if he was dating somoene else and so far he hasn't. So the guy from Western is really awesome and sweet and I am digging him too, but if Konrad asked me to be exclusive with him I would. I don't want to do anything that would hurt anyone, (If I can keep from getting hurt, too, that would be nice!) So I went out with the new guy and we had fun last night... we actually really clicked, but I thought about Konrad last night too while I was with him. I told him that I was seeing someone else and he said that he plans on winning me over.
So what do you all think? Why is it when it rains it poors?