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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
But what if you're the girlfriend? I always hated going by a fraternity and seeing The Girlfriend That Won't Go Away -- yes, she's always with her guy, but MUST SHE BE THERE ALL THE TIME?! Good greif, baby, get some air.
*Ahem.* What I meant to say, is, from a brother's perspective -- how much supportiveness is too much?
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I think there's a difference between the "House girlfriends" that get to know the brothers (...and their girlfirends) as opposed to the obnoxious ones that stare down everyone who goes near her boyfriend like they're trying to steal him or turn him against her.
Back on the topic, from my experience, it's pretty normal for new couples to drop everything for each other. If you give them some time, they'll come back on their own, but if you harp on them they'll just get defensive.