[Kevin]

I wouldn't go so far as Dionysis... It's like any other committment though. You just have to figure out how to manage it best. I have a great deal of responsibility in my fraternity and therefore it is a pretty big commitment. I'm also very involved in campus life... Work 2 jobs also... Still have time for my girlfriend. She's had to learn to be tolerant (and still has difficulties) but we get along fine.