Craig-
I found it by pulling up a search for my name. It was a thread that I honestly had no clue about...
Just figured I'd give the whole update... Sigmachi and I are still doing well after a month (whoa!). I'll give a quick little update, though. I don't want to get too personal, but...
... Numero Uno.. I was out this past Thursday night at another fraternity's party (and no, still not a Pike party, sorry) with the girls, just hanging out. I had decided that night that if I didn't see my man that he was dumped (I hadn't seen him all week). Well, long story short, I ended up calling one of his brothers to find out where he was, and found out he had IM'd me, so I walked all the way back to my dorm to go see his IM, then went over to the frat quad to see him. Ok, let's keep in mind, I may not have been in the best state of mind (when I say I went out, I mean I went OUT... like a rock star).
...So, that night we had the whole, "we're only seeing each other" talk. Wow. Scary stuff for me. Oh, and the other update. My KA ex and I mended our ways. He's now practically engaged, but we figured out what went wrong with us and why we misunderstood each other... i.e. CLOSURE with a capital 'C'
Anyway, so we're doing great now. Haven't talked to him in a couple of days (we said we wouldn't, though... I have 4 tests, a paper, and a quiz this week, and God knows what awful things he has with his schedule) but I'm assuming we'll see each other this weekend. We're both so independent it's scary. The exact reverse of how KA and I were, on the phone every night with each other checking up to make sure we were behaving. I think I just trust the present boy more.
... And, no, I'm not in love... not yet... but you know the little thrill of kissing someone you really are head over heels for? Yeah, I only have to think about kissing him, and it makes me smile. People driving in their cars that see me walking down the street must think I'm psycho.
And the UF/USC game IS homecoming. One of our girls e-mailed the president, I think, or maybe one of the other girls, I'm not sure. If I do get in touch with y'all, keep in mind that I'm an SC girl... don't try to corrupt me TOO much.