My boyfriend is in a fraternity so i can sorta give the other side of the story. we were going out before he joined, and comparably it was hard bc he doesnt have alot of time for me. the fraternity gives him alot of obligations, and so when something is not mandatory he will tend to want to see me, and of course i am happy about it too. its not that hes slacking off to the house but when something else comes into your life you have to spread yourself a little more thinly. im really glad that he joined the house and everything, but sometimes it is very hard. i like to think i am supportive, i like getting to know the poeple in the house, helping with rush, doing whatever for him and the house. this is probly really unclear but im typing quick!!
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