Many of my brothers seemed to disapear when they got a Girlfriends. Somehow the girls would drag them away from house functions. Each time I visited our chapter at Cornell I was impressed by one of the brothers GF's who was really supportive of him, and involved with the house. That's what I really looked for in a girl, and I am so happy that I finally found one.
What are some other guys or girls' experiences out there?

Should I encourage her to join a sorority? are first impressions about this misleading? What sorts of things should I look out for (in terms of what sort of events are really good for couples, and what I should avoid).

comparing stories is great to. PM me