I posted tips in another thread, but I thought of a key tip...BE YOURSELF! I won't give you the whole "You should be yourself because that way you will end up where you should be, yada yadda yadda" speech. If for no other reason, be yourself because you will sound DUMB otherwise! I still can't forget how incredably dumb I sounded in one of my rush parties. The sorority has the reputation of being rich girls, so to impress them I told one of the girls how I love shopping, I don't care how much things are, daddy gives me all the $$ I need, and my friends and I were considered JAPs/CAPS/etc in HS. OMG-As soon as I started talking like that I realized how ridiculous I was being, but once the words started, I couldn't stop 'em! I am a big shopper, however, the real me would NEVER say stuff like that, ESPICIALLY to a stranger. It was so bad! So for your own sake, be yourself!!
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