I can't speak for everyone, as I only know one TKE chapter, and a couple of random Tekes from other chapters...
(I'm a Pi Phi, by the way)
But... all of the Tekes I know are really great guys. Before I went Greek myself, I spent a lot of time at the TKE house on our campus (I was dating one of them) and the one thing I really liked about them was that... Even if they didn't always get along, they always stood by each other. They were always brothers. I loved that. So I made sure that I found the same thing for myself when I went Greek, cos that's what it's about to me. Having that support and having people that you know you can count on.
Now... I have also heard some not nice things about Tekes. But personally, knowing the Tekes that I do... I can say that if I were a guy, I would have rushed TKE.
I'm not sure what their national site is, but you should go to Google and search for Tau Kappa Epsilon, or just TKE, and see different chapters pages and hopefully the national one too. You could also look at the TKE forums on here.
Either way, best of luck with your decision!
