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At my campus, 2 of the frats did pinning, but did it like it meant nothing in the world...

Lavaliering was the big deal. My boyfriend and I started dating our senior year in high school, and he lavaliered me our senior year in college. He gave me a promise ring first, then about a year later, the lavalier. Engagement shortly followed.

It's true that it's a huge deal for a sorority girl to be lavaliered. We kept it a big secret until we had a chapter meeting, then did the candle passing.

My now husband, he was a Sigma Pi. I'm going to PM you the specifics of what they did "for" him. . . It's something where you're not supposed to know what they do unless it's been done to your man! I was also told that the reason the Sigma Pi's there didn't pin girls, was that nationals strongly discourage it. They were the grand sage chapter 6 out of 8 years immediately before / during / after we were there, so they did things really by the book. . .

Melissa
KD-Alpha Psi
Drury