[33girl]

I think she would still be eligible - she is in college for a second undergrad degree NOT A GRAD DEGREE. It's basically like if I decided to go back to Pitt for pre-law or whatever - I would be starting fresh, the same as any other freshman, except I'd be older.

Eve, I would talk to the Greek Life office and make sure they know your status. Some of the groups might have assumed that you were a grad student and cut you because of that. If you don't state it (this other girl may have) they might assume that. Let them know that you are interested in COB - it might be a heck of a lot easier for you than going through formal with lots of freshmen. Also, please don't let whatever happened in high school hang you up. That was a lifetime ago and all the people who made your life hell are now sitting at home watching CMT and eating Food Club Doritos or restocking the tampon shelf at Wal-Mart. You are far better off.