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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
For my SFs who are waiting/hoping to become a member what are you doing to keep your interests and to increase your attractiveness?
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To keep my interest
1. I'm a graduating senior so I'm checking out the Alumnae chapters in the area's where I'm applying to graduate school.
2. Researching, Researching, Researching.
3. Establishing relationship with the women of my desired sorority. (This one really means a lot to me because I've never had a close relationship with a member. Its kind of depressing though. Especially when we go out and they're greeted by members. It never fails, someone always thinks I'm a member and I have to say "No I'm not a member." It just hurts my heart.
4. Surfing the net a looking at websites.
5. Talking to members about the organization. Sometimes this means the good and the bad. Many prospectives don't understand the dynamics of a sorority. So, when they're blessed with membership its overwhelming because they didn't have enough information. You'll never know the full scope of the organization but its important to get as much information as possible inorder to make a wise decision.
To increase my attractiveness
1. Completing my undergrad with a good GPA.
2. Remaining an active member in campus organizations.
3. Keeping up with community service endeavors and trying to find more opportunities.