Oh, Melissa, I'm so sorry to hear that. Don't let those b*tches (sorry to be so blunt) ruin it for you!!! There are plenty of other houses for you to consider, with members who may actually see what a cool person you are and awesome sister you would be. Although I wouldn't blame you if you are soured to this particular house, please go through and give the others a chance. You are much too wonderful a person to let this get you down, girl!!