about the "name game"... i'm not sure if i agree although i do see your point. a lot of times when a rushee and i know people in common (maybe even at school) it gives us something good to talk about. it's true, though, if a girl names somebody who i've heard negative things about or who i think is maybe a weirdo, it won't really reflect positively on her.
if a rushee and a sister know someone in common, it might be ok to talk about him/her, but the rushee should refrain from saying anything strange. last year i had a girl mention a guy i knew from freshman year. i said i thought he was really nice, blah blah blah, we started telling random stories about him, then she was like "y'all should date." that was kind of weird.
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