To be a bit of devil's advocate, if you want something you have to be willing to go and get it if it's important to you. Cream, I'd encourage you to start that young alumnae group in your area. Heather17 is right...volunteering is so diversified, and you can do something that takes 10 minutes a day or 2 hours a day or 2 hours a year. It's up to YOU what you can do