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We did like KappaKittyCat said. We ranked after every round, then were matched through the computer with who invited us back. Let's say a PNM could get invited back to 3 and the PNM's order was 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. She did NOT get invited back to 1 or 2, she would then go to 3, 4, 5. However, if she did not get invited to 1, 2, 4 or 5, well then the poor thing would only get to go back to 3, just one party. But that hardly ever happened.
I don't think it's a bad system. I think if you were a PNM and you saw that the "really cool" house invited you back, you might cut a "less cool" house, even if you really liked the "less cool" house, simply because of the status of it (especially after first rounds where a lot of houses only cut for grades so many girls get invited back). I think a PNM should put down which houses she wants to go back to in the order she really liked them. We always did this at my school and we had great returns and not many girls dropped out. Because people were putting down where they WANTED to go, not where everyone else was going.
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