When rushing there were two houses that I knew I DID NOT want to be a part of. I had hung out with a fraternity the year before I rushed a lot and about six members of one sorority and two from another were always there. They were rude to all the girl that came over to the point that they told me I was not welcome there (the brothers told me to ignore them!). They would talk about all the girls behind their backs and make up rumors about everyone (including that I was sleeping around in bathrooms which was totally FALSE those guys were only my friends). SO when I went through rush I met a really nice girl at the house I despised the most. I told her that although I thought she was very sweet and would represent any org very well, some of her sisters showed me what I knew I did not want to become and I asked her to not invite me back to the second round of parties. She looked really puzzled and when I explained that my boyfriend was in the same fraternity as those six women she said that was too bad cause she really liked me and not everyone there was like that. However too many of them were for me to be comfortable there.
So sometimes it may just take a few people to turn you off to a wholeorg.
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"...and love her for her womanhood."
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