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Old 09-18-2002, 10:31 PM
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Re: Arrogance really insecurity?

kddani,

Hearing your story I don't believe your friend was being "full of himself" I just believe he was full of his new experience, that it was really important to him, that maybe he was a little amazed and very happy, and was so excited that he was "stuck on fast forward" when he was talking to you.

Much like girls get when they want to share a new experience that means a lot to them and they are very excited about.

It sounds like you may have unintentionally been a "bad friend" making the conversation about "your" needs rather than listening to him . . .

Cut him some slack. Just because he is really excited doesn't mean he loves you less, its just that he has "stars" in his eyes and needs to share. He'll eventually get over it.

You sound like that sonf from the girl that one the MTV music award . . how does it go and what is it called? You make things so complicated?

Let me turn it around also and ask you: Why do girls seem to exist to pop male egos? Why won't you let us enjoy something without taking us down a peg?

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Originally posted by kddani

Slightly related but not the same thing:

How do you smack some sense into a friend who's totally getting full of themselves? (Background: i have a friend that just moved to LA and is acting, quite successfully so far. He's met a ton of famous people and had several small parts. But this is all he talks about! I talked to him for 20 minutes yesterday and all he did was drop names! I've known him for 7 years, dated him for 1 of those years. There's no need to impress me. And out of that whole conversation, he asked me something about me once, and didn't even respond to what i said) I'm worried that the Hollywood scene is going to ruin him, and i'll end up being interviewed for an E! true Hollywood story on him in a few years)
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