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Shawndalynn, NO one deserves to be treated that way. I was hoping to "explain" it by looking at all possibilities.
I don't know why a confrontation is even necessary. Go about your life, if it's late when he calls, just tell him it's late. If you really don't want to talk anymore, tell him please, I'd rather you didn't call again. Trying to force him into explaining himself or making some decision when he doesn't want to/isn't ready will give you a false reading on what's going on. I know it might feel good to tell the guy off, but what else would you gain? Just don't be available to him unless you agree with the terms. It's pretty easy to hang up the phone-block the IM-take another way to class and avoid anymore interaction. If he becomes a nuisance,
there are a TON of ladies AND GUYS on GC that can help you with that! If you take away, IN A NICE WAY, whatever it is he is getting from you (COMFORT, CONVERSATION, FRIENDSHIP) if he really finds it a loss when it's gone, he will move it fast forward. Didn't he do that when you first met? Good luck with this dilemma!
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