sigkapdancer, you're right. We do have a strong policy on legacies. Thankfully, in my experiences, I have found our Nationals to be a great support to us in our desire to welcome new sisters, legacies or not, who uphold our sorority name.
I hear your frustrations on the shuffle and hecticness of rush. I have heard of other houses/chapters who have made it a policy to telephone the relative sorority sister of the legacy to inform them when a bid would not be extended. What a tough phone call to make! The flip side though, is how embarassing for a rushee if indeed she is not a legacy, and that phone call is made.
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