[librasoul22]

Originally posted by twinstars
The best advice I can offer about guys is to look at what he does, and ignore what he says. Put him on mute, so to speak. What do his actions reveal? If he's feeding you the right lines, but his actions don't back it up, he's not being sincere, and/or he doesn't have the best intentions for you.

The whole "let's just see where things go" idea doesn't sound that promising to me. He already knows you... you've been friendly for months... so he should have a pretty good idea whether or not he likes you enough to date you, and whether or not the chemistry's there. Don't let him use you... string you along for weeks or months, all the while enjoying hooking up with you... while he "figures out" where he wants things to go.

If he straight-up tells you he wants to date you, exclusively, and he consistently acts in a way that makes you believe him, then give him a chance.

But don't let him lead you on. You're already good friends; he should already know whether you're a possible girlfriend or if you're in the "just a hookup, I'd never date her" category.

Good call.