Okay about the cutting people and not telling them why, I can give you a few examples of why from my chapter and other sororities..
A girl came through rush last year that had a reputataion for sleeping around. It wasn't known how accurate this was until a sisters admitted her brother had slept with this girl numerous times and talked very negatively about her... Now, would you like to call a girl and say "WE are dropping you because you slept with Janie's brother your senior year?"
Another girl was dropped from a sorority because she showed up to a party and reeked as though she hadn't taken a shower in days. Would you like to call a girl and say "Sorry you were cut because you smelled".
Case #3 A girl came through rush and told a girl in XYZ that she hated a girl in ABC because she had dated her exboyfriend and begane talking about weird things she had done to her. She didn't know that the girl she was talking to currently dated him. Now picture calling her and saying "You were cut because Tammy was afraid you would go psycho on her for dating your ex boyfriend too"/
I mean if it was something like grades I understand, but we tell the girls our minimum GPA before they come through. THey already know that. You couldn't just tell some rushees why they were dropped and others why they weren't.
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