This is one of the most painful decisions I see chapters go through. Also know that this is an equally painful time for those alums.
I guess my first reaction is that I see chapters focus WAY too much on legacies. They are totally put under a microscope. Every word, hair, fashion choice is put to the test. They talked too much -overeager thinks they will get in...we must release him/her. They didn't talk enough..not trying har enough to make and impression. I have heard them all.
Give this guy a chance...he may not be your best friend but does he have the morales, leadership, whit, and characteristics for you to call your brother? Big difference.
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