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Originally posted by AlphaSigLana
What do people say that either hurt your feelings or make you depressed?
I constantly have guys I like tell me they aren't interested in me bc they aren't attracted to me. Okay I know that sounds shallow, but that is one thing that really hurts bc it makes me feel ugly. Right now I have a crush on a guy and he told me that he isn't attracted to me. SO now when I see him I feel worthless in a way, oh yeah he is one of my friends too that I just met in Florida. I have agreat group of friends and of course I had to fall for one.
It also hurts my feelings when I hear that my ex bf is still mad at me--bc I was mad at her for something-- we haven't talked since Sigma CHi Derby days.
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Lana,
Please don't be sad! Just because a few guys you've come across aren't "attracted" to you, it in no way means you're ugly! I bet you're beautiful inside and out, and I know that someday somebody is going to really, truly cherish and appreciate that beauty! You are NOT worthless!... but these guys are definitely not worth your time.
Forget your ex-boyfriend... he's just that, an EX. He's not part of your life anymore, and you shouldn't weigh his opinions too heavily. You know that old saying: "All good things in life are worth waiting for"... well, just wait a teensy bit longer and I'm positive that you'll find the guy that's right for you!
I hope you feel better soon.
XOXO,
Annie.