I can understand your concerns. Most of my best friends at school are non-Greek, and I date a GDI. Greek life does not dictate MY life...and it's a genuine concern to wonder if your life will be dictated by your affiliation. I think it just depends on the person and circumstances...some girls' entire lives revolve around the house and they don't have any other extracurricular activity, but then there are others with wide and diverse lives. I think it just comes down to making the effort.
Once again...another reason I like Deferred Rush.
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