thank you DELTABRAT, thank you!
your response was very nice. you have every right to be mad at people who have outright said things to you and people you know. those people obviously aren't worth the ground they walk on.
i'm so glad that you see why I (and other people) get so upset when people generalize about any race. there are bad and good seeds in every race. i'm not saying that i have changed your mindset (obviously not my point!) but i am glad that you were able to overlook your hurt and rage to see the hurt of another person.
for that i am thankful!
i'm so glad this post didn't turn into a hate spewing all out war like others have. we all got to speak our minds and some of us (myself included) have been able to expand our opinions based on other people's experiences.
DELTABRAT, i'l tell ya, i would NEVER choose sides with a racist white over a black! NEVER! it doesn't matter to me that i am white and they are white, if they are wrong, they will not receive my support. i will not speak for all people, but i'd have to fathom that most people feel the same way.
oh, and ictyre, i don't know why i assumed you were in a frat. if you're in a sorority i apologize.
Peace.