I suggest rethinking the original reasons of why you wanted to go Greek. Have these reasons changed now? At our chapter nothing is mandatory except for chapter meetings and philanthropy events. Our chapters are on Sunday night because not a lot of things are going on then (and every house on my campus is this way!). It's very easy to manage your life around sorority things, and don't worry about your sisters being offended. I did that last semester when I met my bf who went to another college. I hated going to chapters because that meant I'd have to leave him early, so I know how you feel! Sometimes it can be hard at first to manage your sorority and other aspects of your life, but it CAN be done. My busiest time was just during my month pledgeship, and then things really settled down. I think it's a good idea to go ahead and go through rush and see what it's like. If you still think that you'd like to wait then wait a year and see if you're mind has changed. Good luck!
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